I been reading this book recently, a gift from Mr.Patrick. Even I just started to read for the first few pages, I felt that this book inspired me... Its makes me think more mature and I realize a lot of things that never come across my mind... hopefully this book will make me a better person.. better leader for now and in future...
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Different topic...
I been really tired recently... not physically but mentally... being a leader is not easy... to convince people is even harder... to make ur team mate think as how you think is double the hardness...
Well, I admitted that I not a good leader but I trying my best... Most of them think that they have their personal problem and choose not to give a damn to things like project/assignment tht they should be worried about... And when you ask them to something, they will just do it for the sake of doing it without thinking much deeply on the benefits of everyone else in the team...
The sentence I quote from the book I read the best way to be success is to make your employees think like a leader... but to make them thinks is not that easy... They have their own mind and I am just a leader by the name... afterall we are all still students... Whatever I said will be something like microorganism that nobody will even bother to care of... Maybe for them it just an assignment to make them pass their degree... but for me, it not just to pass my degree, it time for me, for us to practice to be a better person in future...
That's the problem the people have, they think for short distance and never care much afterall...
I am not saying they are selfish because sometime we have to be selfish depending on what situation we have... I'm selfish too... What I saying is they need to be more understanding and put some efforts to makes things work out for everyone...
Exam is half way finishing and everyday what I heard was people telling each others how hard they study but nothing got into their mind and whatever it is... but the fact is they do know... Most of my friends look at me and ask, 'hey why u so free one like u are not worried bout the exam'. I will always tell them there is nothing for me to worry about, I had studied what I think I should and why must I worried even sometime I dun even think that I know the answer for the questions ask in the exam paper.
They will always replied me 'ohh... sure la... u so smart ma... can memorize easily within short time'.
Well my friends, I am not smart, I just understand what I read and analyze better... In fact all of you are better than me, Yes... you are... I am not sure smart/genius type of person... I just understand what I studied and use them. So STOP memorizing START understanding and analizing!
If you want to know why you can't understand the sentences, it is because you assume things before you even finish the whole sentences. Focus and read carefully, find the key words, then come out with the main point.
Here is another things that turns me off all the times... people that always assume things as they think but in fact thats not true at all... Yes, it's good that you express your feeling the way you want it but can you think of what others might feel and think? Especially you are commmenting about something bad about people or things... What people will feel when they over heard what you said? You definitely feel that you did nothing wrong by expressing ur feeling but how bout others if they did nothing wrong and got bad comment just because you assume things in your ways?
Dear my little friends, please think from their point of view... please understand the whole thing before you even make the judgement. Afterall, who are you to judge them if you are not better than them? And even if you are better than them, still do you think you know everything and able to judge a person?
Think again... Always thinks before you speak!
I felt really bad today because I felt offenced by sentences written to me... Seriously, I am the worm in your brain that know everything... I am not the person that write the future of everyone... I do not know what in your mind and how I suppose to know what happen... I just transfered a msg to you and you assume that I ruin your plan? Read the sentence I wrote to you carefully, its not me the one who invite him... He never come accross my mind until somebody remind me of it and I just so happen to ask you bout him...
Please, I hate it so much...
It's been really long time ago that I ever wrote such a long entry... There are a lot in my brain/heart that I want them to gone but I just can't do it... I think I should stop here... Goodbye readers... Sorry for not updating... hope you enjoy reading this entry~ oh ya, remember to drop a comment if you feel like what I felt~
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